Comments on: Sex In Amman http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/ A Jordanian Blog Sat, 11 Feb 2012 14:24:17 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: elie http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-146452 elie Sun, 05 Feb 2012 17:06:59 +0000 http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-146452 Everyone just chill, what jordan is going through spain went through it like 30 years ago - yes there were extremes but now with so much work and the crisis hardly anyone has sex no more, i guess people are also just plain bored of it. The same will happen in jordan - after the huge sexual explosion there will be peace and a middle ground. INnshaalla ! Everyone just chill, what jordan is going through spain went through it like 30 years ago – yes there were extremes but now with so much work and the crisis hardly anyone has sex no more, i guess people are also just plain bored of it. The same will happen in jordan – after the huge sexual explosion there will be peace and a middle ground. INnshaalla !

]]> By: Ian http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-146395 Ian Tue, 24 Jan 2012 11:53:51 +0000 http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-146395 I was out in a well know Mall last evening, to meet my Asian Girlfriend, and we planned a night in a hourly hotel. Because my accomodation has a no guest ban, and here also. Whilst I was waiting i started chatting to two young Jordanian sisters. I sat on a bench with them, and chatted about dating in Jordan. The elder 31, was security for her little sister 16, who was waiting for her date. They were well dresssed in western outfits, both very beautiful, and very attractive. The younger, at 16, was planning some time alone with her BF..... I was temped to get the phone number of the elder. But resisted the temptation. I would like to meet Jordanian girls for dating, but apart from these sisters have never actually been able to chat freely. Just how many hourly/ half night hotels are there in Amman.. All the reasonable hotel I know will not entertain my needs. Ian I was out in a well know Mall last evening, to meet my Asian Girlfriend, and we planned a night in a hourly hotel. Because my accomodation has a no guest ban, and here also.

Whilst I was waiting i started chatting to two young Jordanian sisters.

I sat on a bench with them, and chatted about dating in Jordan. The elder 31, was security for her little sister 16, who was waiting for her date. They were well dresssed in western outfits, both very beautiful, and very attractive.

The younger, at 16, was planning some time alone with her BF…..

I was temped to get the phone number of the elder. But resisted the temptation.

I would like to meet Jordanian girls for dating, but apart from these sisters have never actually been able to chat freely.

Just how many hourly/ half night hotels are there in Amman.. All the reasonable hotel I know will not entertain my needs.

Ian

]]> By: Ian http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-146394 Ian Tue, 24 Jan 2012 11:43:39 +0000 http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-146394 What about bringing this up to date. Very interesting reading. Update to 2012 please. Ian What about bringing this up to date.

Very interesting reading.

Update to 2012 please.

Ian

]]> By: Moh'd Madi http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-146310 Moh'd Madi Thu, 05 Jan 2012 10:05:41 +0000 http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-146310 UMMMMMM, this is a very sensitive issue take me as an example : I'm 35 Yrs old guy i make over a thousand monthly , I'm still single I can't afford marriage expenses especially that I had a bad exp and broke up with My fiance and i got alternatives and yes sex is very important at least twice a week what shall i do and those thousands of guys it's not a sexual crises only it's a financial issue as well I mean i can get the pleasure and the need without any commencement so why would i bare the hassle of marriage I'm so open and transparent here admitting my needs and of course the others. the subject is much bigger than u all think I'm not saying that i'm happy and satisfied with this life style and you don't know what is the real divorce ratio in amman this is tearing and ruin families the core of our new social life and threatening future God bless Jordan ps: use condoms and stay safe UMMMMMM, this is a very sensitive issue
take me as an example :
I’m 35 Yrs old guy
i make over a thousand monthly , I’m still single I can’t afford marriage expenses especially that I had a bad exp and broke up with My fiance
and i got alternatives and yes sex is very important at least twice a week
what shall i do and those thousands of guys
it’s not a sexual crises only it’s a financial issue as well
I mean i can get the pleasure and the need without any commencement so why would i bare the hassle of marriage
I’m so open and transparent here admitting my needs and of course the others.
the subject is much bigger than u all think
I’m not saying that i’m happy and satisfied with this life style
and you don’t know what is the real divorce ratio in amman
this is tearing and ruin families the core of our new social life and threatening future
God bless Jordan
ps: use condoms and stay safe

]]> By: brooo http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-146272 brooo Fri, 30 Dec 2011 22:32:46 +0000 http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-146272 i was out of jordan for 12 years, infact girls in amman still sick i was out of jordan for 12 years, infact girls in amman still sick

]]> By: Yazeed Waleed http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-146255 Yazeed Waleed Wed, 14 Dec 2011 14:30:57 +0000 http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-146255 I bet you all ends up here after typin` sex in amman! this is not what ur all expected i know;) so this is my email for girls only who would like me to bang them;) D3vil@hotmail.com I bet you all ends up here after typin` sex in amman! this is not what ur all expected i know;)
so this is my email for girls only who would like me to bang them;) D3vil@hotmail.com

]]> By: mrwiner@ymail.com http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-146218 mrwiner@ymail.com Fri, 02 Dec 2011 19:03:55 +0000 http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-146218 كن على حقيقتك ولى تبالي ارفع راسك في الاعالي لنك اردني يا ابن الغالي عش وحافظ على شرفك و دم المنوالي إدعو لي بالنجاح الله يوفقكم يا غوالي دام انك اردني وعربي قول وانا مالي وجع راسي من ورى هل موالي اختم بقولي للعرب والمسلمين الصالحين الغوالي إبعدو عن كيد المناجس والاصحابي حكمو عقولكم قبل البدء بل…….. معاصي نضرة فضحكت فغمزة فسلام فوقع في المعصية كن على حقيقتك ولى تبالي
ارفع راسك في الاعالي
لنك اردني يا ابن الغالي
عش وحافظ على شرفك و دم المنوالي
إدعو لي بالنجاح الله يوفقكم يا غوالي
دام انك اردني وعربي قول وانا مالي وجع راسي من ورى هل موالي

اختم بقولي للعرب والمسلمين الصالحين الغوالي إبعدو عن كيد المناجس والاصحابي
حكمو عقولكم قبل البدء بل…….. معاصي
نضرة
فضحكت
فغمزة
فسلام
فوقع في المعصية

]]> By: إبن ما يهاب http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-146217 إبن ما يهاب Fri, 02 Dec 2011 19:01:35 +0000 http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-146217 كن على حقيقتك ولى تبالي ارفع راسك في الاعالي لنك اردني يا ابن الغالي عش وحافظ على شرفك و دم المنوالي إدعو لي بالنجاح الله يوفقكم يا غوالي دام انك اردني وعربي قول وانا مالي وجع راسي من ورى هل موالي اختم بقولي للعرب والمسلمين الصالحين الغوالي إبعدو عن كيد المناجس والاصحابي حكمو عقولكم قبل البدء بل........ معاصي نضرة فضحكت فغمزة فسلام فوقع في المعصية كن على حقيقتك ولى تبالي
ارفع راسك في الاعالي
لنك اردني يا ابن الغالي
عش وحافظ على شرفك و دم المنوالي
إدعو لي بالنجاح الله يوفقكم يا غوالي
دام انك اردني وعربي قول وانا مالي وجع راسي من ورى هل موالي

اختم بقولي للعرب والمسلمين الصالحين الغوالي إبعدو عن كيد المناجس والاصحابي
حكمو عقولكم قبل البدء بل…….. معاصي
نضرة
فضحكت
فغمزة
فسلام
فوقع في المعصية

]]> By: Walid http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-145738 Walid Mon, 22 Aug 2011 07:16:46 +0000 http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-145738 Here's my belated 2 cents. Growing up in Amman in the 70's and the 80's things were pretty fun and wild. Drinking parties, and yes people doing drugs and hooking up! There it is out, people were having a good time in Jordan since the swinging 60's too. Then it stands to reason with the explosion of the population and the advent of the internet things have grown and increased in openness. Don't forget that Drugs, booze, sex and any form of "entertainment" is available. People have sex and will do so. What does it say about a country when a parliamentarian (a woman) chastises the government and Parliament because there are a million bordellos? Tells you something doesn't it? What I wish for is that people would just grow up! What goes on in peoples pants is of no concern of yours, if men and women want to play around let them, how is that going to affect you? (the You here is a general one to society). What I am against is the whole hypocrisy thing. Schools need to educate people on STD's prevention and that sex has it undesirable consequences if you are not careful. Silence = Death. Here’s my belated 2 cents.

Growing up in Amman in the 70′s and the 80′s things were pretty fun and wild. Drinking parties, and yes people doing drugs and hooking up! There it is out, people were having a good time in Jordan since the swinging 60′s too.
Then it stands to reason with the explosion of the population and the advent of the internet things have grown and increased in openness.
Don’t forget that Drugs, booze, sex and any form of “entertainment” is available. People have sex and will do so. What does it say about a country when a parliamentarian (a woman) chastises the government and Parliament because there are a million bordellos? Tells you something doesn’t it?

What I wish for is that people would just grow up!

What goes on in peoples pants is of no concern of yours, if men and women want to play around let them, how is that going to affect you? (the You here is a general one to society).

What I am against is the whole hypocrisy thing. Schools need to educate people on STD’s prevention and that sex has it undesirable consequences if you are not careful.

Silence = Death.

]]> By: Aya http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-145412 Aya Wed, 01 Jun 2011 22:39:53 +0000 http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-145412 To my opinion, no one will be able to talk about any sexual revolution comparable to the western one as long as such a huge taboo will keep surrounding sexuality here, for that breaking this taboo can actually be considered the most meaningful change in the way western societies relate to sexuality. First and foremost, pulling the debate out of the religious and the moral spheres (take a look at the comments and notice just how often Allah is being involved in the matter... that, in itself, from a western perspective, is very edifying), then being able to adress the issue of the lack, if not, too often, the total absence of sex eductaion at school and inside the families, in the sense that this should be considered purely as a public health issue, in a dispassionate way. Here, only a very very few people feel free to talk about sexual behaviours among the young people, and it gets even worse whenever it comes to women and sexuality. I don't really think that relations are getting more and more sexually based. Maybe is it more common to see people renting flats for a few hours (those ads in certain newspapers mentioning, you know, flats to rent "weekly, monthly or yearly") when people would, before, simply settle for their car and a dark place (the airport road, to mention only that one). Well, this is true also that some people originating from the upper classes now start breaking the taboo of virginity. But for the rest, I don't see any change significant enough to allow us to talk about any sexual revolution. Jordan, and the same goes for most of the arab world, still has a long way to go. But this article deserves praise at least for being there, opening a space for debate. To my opinion, no one will be able to talk about any sexual revolution comparable to the western one as long as such a huge taboo will keep surrounding sexuality here, for that breaking this taboo can actually be considered the most meaningful change in the way western societies relate to sexuality.
First and foremost, pulling the debate out of the religious and the moral spheres (take a look at the comments and notice just how often Allah is being involved in the matter… that, in itself, from a western perspective, is very edifying), then being able to adress the issue of the lack, if not, too often, the total absence of sex eductaion at school and inside the families, in the sense that this should be considered purely as a public health issue, in a dispassionate way.
Here, only a very very few people feel free to talk about sexual behaviours among the young people, and it gets even worse whenever it comes to women and sexuality.
I don’t really think that relations are getting more and more sexually based. Maybe is it more common to see people renting flats for a few hours (those ads in certain newspapers mentioning, you know, flats to rent “weekly, monthly or yearly”) when people would, before, simply settle for their car and a dark place (the airport road, to mention only that one). Well, this is true also that some people originating from the upper classes now start breaking the taboo of virginity. But for the rest, I don’t see any change significant enough to allow us to talk about any sexual revolution. Jordan, and the same goes for most of the arab world, still has a long way to go.
But this article deserves praise at least for being there, opening a space for debate.

]]> By: Gironde--- http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-145321 Gironde--- Mon, 25 Apr 2011 15:05:30 +0000 http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-145321 What is bad or condemnable about searching for "sex in Amman"? If you are in Amman alone, and need hugs, don't know anybody, why not to search on the web? I understand that in an Islam country sex is not a subject of public discussion, I understand (though disagree) that prostitution is illegal, but I would never believe that there is no demand for erotic services, should it be massage or anything else. And, where there is a demand, there must be a supply as well, so there must be also in Amman. What is bad or condemnable about searching for “sex in Amman”? If you are in Amman alone, and need hugs, don’t know anybody, why not to search on the web?
I understand that in an Islam country sex is not a subject of public discussion, I understand (though disagree) that prostitution is illegal, but I would never believe that there is no demand for erotic services, should it be massage or anything else. And, where there is a demand, there must be a supply as well, so there must be also in Amman.

]]> By: zeali http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-145312 zeali Fri, 22 Apr 2011 03:09:48 +0000 http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-145312 COMMENT #50 Sister Muslimah moved to Jordan from Canada. I feel your frestration.You are absolutely right. I was born and raised in Jordan then I immigrated to the US. I visit every few years and I noticed the change every time I visit, sadly the change is from good to bad to worse. It is easier to be a muslim in the US than in Jordan ,we have more relegious freedon here than in the land of Islam. I will not go back to live there for nothing. COMMENT #50
Sister Muslimah moved to Jordan from Canada.
I feel your frestration.You are absolutely right.
I was born and raised in Jordan then I immigrated to the US.
I visit every few years and I noticed the change every time I visit, sadly the change is from good to bad to worse. It is easier to be a muslim in the US than in Jordan ,we have more relegious freedon here than in the land of Islam.
I will not go back to live there for nothing.

]]> By: Muath http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-145279 Muath Sat, 16 Apr 2011 07:50:37 +0000 http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-145279 @Tee .... THANK YOU FOR THE WORDS !!!!! I LOVE YOU ! @Tee …. THANK YOU FOR THE WORDS !!!!! I LOVE YOU !

]]> By: OR http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-145242 OR Thu, 07 Apr 2011 11:29:12 +0000 http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-145242 PLEASE READ TO END!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! A very interesting dialogue! I have to agree with Koko # 169, when she said that we are having searching "Sex in Amman"! I admit I was. And if ANY denies this fact, he or she are lairing to themselves. Regardless of the fact that life styles in the ME have changed and Amman is no different, however, sex is here to stay! It is the way we go by it. I love sex more than average. And I still believe that you always find what you look for in any city! This dialogue has been going on since 2007. I was thinking that if it is so important to many and even more, how about if we all reunite in making a "Debate" about it? This would be a start of an interesting TV Series! Don't you all agree? Sex being a taboo in our society due to religious reason, has been the reason for making it so bad to discuss! If any of you intellectual soles wish to have a forum on the subject, I will be happy to receive your wishes and organize a place, time that is suitable and agreeable and open the dialogue. I am not sure how this will evolve. But am sure many would love to meet, and hey, this may in-up being a great opportunity to make new friends and take from there! I am in Amman for a short time. I do however come and go. I may be contacted on o-rabi@hotmail.com You all have a great day. Omar You all have a great day. Omar PLEASE READ TO END!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

A very interesting dialogue! I have to agree with Koko # 169, when she said that we are having searching “Sex in Amman”! I admit I was. And if ANY denies this fact, he or she are lairing to themselves. Regardless of the fact that life styles in the ME have changed and Amman is no different, however, sex is here to stay! It is the way we go by it. I love sex more than average. And I still believe that you always find what you look for in any city!

This dialogue has been going on since 2007. I was thinking that if it is so important to many and even more, how about if we all reunite in making a “Debate” about it?

This would be a start of an interesting TV Series! Don’t you all agree? Sex being a taboo in our society due to religious reason, has been the reason for making it so bad to discuss!

If any of you intellectual soles wish to have a forum on the subject, I will be happy to receive your wishes and organize a place, time that is suitable and agreeable and open the dialogue. I am not sure how this will evolve. But am sure many would love to meet, and hey, this may in-up being a great opportunity to make new friends and take from there!

I am in Amman for a short time. I do however come and go.

I may be contacted on o-rabi@hotmail.com

You all have a great day. Omar

You all have a great day. Omar

]]> By: Phoenix http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-144883 Phoenix Sun, 20 Mar 2011 12:45:13 +0000 http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-144883 I don't know where you go, I go to hot shots and its hardly ever busy there, I find myself the only girl there at times and no pick up lines whatsoever. Maybe I'm just too damn intimidating for my own good hahaha! If you hear about Fettish clubs hit me up, i'm interested to see THAT! I don’t know where you go, I go to hot shots and its hardly ever busy there, I find myself the only girl there at times and no pick up lines whatsoever. Maybe I’m just too damn intimidating for my own good hahaha! If you hear about Fettish clubs hit me up, i’m interested to see THAT!

]]> By: Asem http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-144702 Asem Sun, 20 Feb 2011 08:20:02 +0000 http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-144702 Hi Tee, Just i wanna comment on your last words "I believe religion is just another brainwashing method… ". you think that you are modern by saying "live and let others live" and then you said the above. brainwashing !!!!!!! this isnt accepted, if you dont have any standards control your life, there are others and many others have. you should be sorry of your say. Hi Tee,
Just i wanna comment on your last words “I believe religion is just another brainwashing method… “.
you think that you are modern by saying “live and let others live” and then you said the above. brainwashing !!!!!!! this isnt accepted, if you dont have any standards control your life, there are others and many others have. you should be sorry of your say.

]]> By: Mohammed Nawafleh http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-144584 Mohammed Nawafleh Tue, 08 Feb 2011 10:13:36 +0000 http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-144584 i agree with you , how can we married in the furure ,, we will lost the trust betwen us and our woman ,, wake up ... no one of us accpt that for his own wife .. thank your for your wanderfull subject ... i agree with you , how can we married in the furure ,, we will lost the trust betwen us and our woman ,, wake up … no one of us accpt that for his own wife ..
thank your for your wanderfull subject …

]]> By: Tee http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-144378 Tee Mon, 31 Jan 2011 16:32:32 +0000 http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-144378 Live and let live!! First of all people change, societies change, not all of us really care about religion or culture! If you don't wanna have sex then don't, others do! Why do people think they have the rite to judge other people by their own standards! If you wanna pray go ahead knock yourself out no one is stopping you! I myself don't believe in God and in Jordan we have freedom of religion and choice! But just because you don't agree with what is going on , it doesn't mean it shouldn't be there. Because some people don't care about religion or hijab I oppose that 100% but who am I to judge women who wear it? But just like you don't like being judged by other people's standards then don't judge others and let other people live the way they want! I believe religion is just another brainwashing method... Live and let live!! First of all people change, societies change, not all of us really care about religion or culture! If you don’t wanna have sex then don’t, others do! Why do people think they have the rite to judge other people by their own standards! If you wanna pray go ahead knock yourself out no one is stopping you! I myself don’t believe in God and in Jordan we have freedom of religion and choice! But just because you don’t agree with what is going on , it doesn’t mean it shouldn’t be there. Because some people don’t care about religion or hijab I oppose that 100% but who am I to judge women who wear it? But just like you don’t like being judged by other people’s standards then don’t judge others and let other people live the way they want! I believe religion is just another brainwashing method…

]]> By: Habib http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-144363 Habib Sun, 30 Jan 2011 19:16:11 +0000 http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-144363 I enjoyed reading the various feedback on this topic. There is no wrong or right answer here. What Jordan is experiencing is similar what other Arab countries went through or going through. In my opinion, this is a form of social and moral occupation by the west who for the past 50 or so years have been planning this. Islam as the fastest growing religion is a big threat to the west and to their financial interests in the region. Please do not take me wrong, I am not trying to politicize this social issue, but we would be naive if we ignored the root cause. Some of you mentioned suppression of individual sexualities because of the Islamic teachings. Where I may disagree is that we seem to blame the game, but not the players. Islam has been a way of life for many centuries and what experience now in the Arab and Muslim world s in terms of humiliation and loss of dignity and honor is attributed to the fact that we got away from these teachings that organizes all aspects of our lives. I do not deny that we all have sexual appetite and it may sound so good to have the ability to get laid when you want, but let us pose for a moment and think about the consequences of this. I am in no way saying we should not have separation of church and state, but the moral corruption we are enduring as a society will have a price someone has to bare. This is not a Muslim vs. Christian discussion, this is a social issue that may create far reaching impact on our youth. Just a thought! I enjoyed reading the various feedback on this topic. There is no wrong or right answer here. What Jordan is experiencing is similar what other Arab countries went through or going through. In my opinion, this is a form of social and moral occupation by the west who for the past 50 or so years have been planning this. Islam as the fastest growing religion is a big threat to the west and to their financial interests in the region. Please do not take me wrong, I am not trying to politicize this social issue, but we would be naive if we ignored the root cause. Some of you mentioned suppression of individual sexualities because of the Islamic teachings. Where I may disagree is that we seem to blame the game, but not the players. Islam has been a way of life for many centuries and what experience now in the Arab and Muslim world s in terms of humiliation and loss of dignity and honor is attributed to the fact that we got away from these teachings that organizes all aspects of our lives. I do not deny that we all have sexual appetite and it may sound so good to have the ability to get laid when you want, but let us pose for a moment and think about the consequences of this. I am in no way saying we should not have separation of church and state, but the moral corruption we are enduring as a society will have a price someone has to bare. This is not a Muslim vs. Christian discussion, this is a social issue that may create far reaching impact on our youth. Just a thought!

]]> By: Stranger in my own country http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-144286 Stranger in my own country Mon, 24 Jan 2011 04:00:59 +0000 http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-144286 Wow .. This article was published in 7th of May 2007 .. last entry was in 13th of Oct. 2010 .. lol .. and now me @ 24th of Jan. 2011 ... Well Amman changed a lot for sure ... you can feel the true shuck when be in my shoes ... usually I leave Amman for few years and then come back to notice a shift that should happen in 20 years time frame ... The sad part is .. making friends is become harder .. in the old times making new friends was truly easy ... now people becoming very idiotic ... each person you talk to acts as if he or she knows it all .. lol Wow ..
This article was published in 7th of May 2007 .. last entry was in 13th of Oct. 2010 ..
lol .. and now me @ 24th of Jan. 2011 …

Well Amman changed a lot for sure … you can feel the true shuck when be in my shoes … usually I leave Amman for few years and then come back to notice a shift that should happen in 20 years time frame …

The sad part is .. making friends is become harder .. in the old times making new friends was truly easy … now people becoming very idiotic … each person you talk to acts as if he or she knows it all .. lol

]]> By: joanna http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-142922 joanna Wed, 13 Oct 2010 13:33:10 +0000 http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-142922 This article is a a gross over exaggeration and an opinion as opposed to fact. This article is a a gross over exaggeration and an opinion as opposed to fact.

]]> By: jeries http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-142884 jeries Sat, 09 Oct 2010 03:59:52 +0000 http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-142884 i am from Jordan but i live in the states. i visited Jordan in 2007 for four weeks . i did sleep with four girls. if you believe me you know the real Jordan, if you don`t believe me you don`t go out enough. sex in Jordan is as widespread as in America. be brave with the girls , tell them what you want and do not be shy...you will get them. this is for real. i will be in Jordan 2010 December. i am from Jordan but i live in the states. i visited Jordan in 2007 for four weeks . i did sleep with four girls. if you believe me you know the real Jordan, if you don`t believe me you don`t go out enough. sex in Jordan is as widespread as in America. be brave with the girls , tell them what you want and do not be shy…you will get them. this is for real. i will be in Jordan 2010 December.

]]> By: محمد http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-142649 محمد Sun, 05 Sep 2010 11:42:31 +0000 http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-142649 ما في بنت بالاردن اليوم عدادها عالزيرو ليش نضحك على بعض ما في بنت بالاردن اليوم عدادها عالزيرو ليش نضحك على بعض

]]> By: jamal http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-142644 jamal Sat, 04 Sep 2010 11:44:21 +0000 http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-142644 why are we burying our heads in the sand, infidelity..anal sex are widespread in jordan. why are we burying our heads in the sand, infidelity..anal sex are widespread in jordan.

]]> By: maodeh http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-142639 maodeh Fri, 03 Sep 2010 04:08:15 +0000 http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-142639 what do you expect when you drive all your attention on such a topic? this shit happens everywhere, and you can't build your theory or whatever you call it based on a told stories, you didn't seem that you lived a similar story, did you? were you invited to some guy's apartment or something? or maybe those guys' apartment (the ones that pay JOD 50 each), for god's sake !!! there are many topics are worth to be discussed instead of such a very cheap topic which is being exadurated only to ruin our image as Arabs and Muslims. Cheers what do you expect when you drive all your attention on such a topic? this shit happens everywhere, and you can’t build your theory or whatever you call it based on a told stories, you didn’t seem that you lived a similar story, did you? were you invited to some guy’s apartment or something? or maybe those guys’ apartment (the ones that pay JOD 50 each), for god’s sake !!! there are many topics are worth to be discussed instead of such a very cheap topic which is being exadurated only to ruin our image as Arabs and Muslims. Cheers

]]> By: Salty http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-142423 Salty Mon, 23 Aug 2010 19:12:28 +0000 http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-142423 man the people who are having sex like you are saying are 1% of the population, maybe they lived there whole lives in western counties, i live in al rabyeh and i go clubbing,so im aware of this subject,its only kisses touching ,and maybeeeeee at the most anal sex,thats it ! man the people who are having sex like you are saying are 1% of the population, maybe they lived there whole lives in western counties, i live in al rabyeh and i go clubbing,so im aware of this subject,its only kisses touching ,and maybeeeeee at the most anal sex,thats it !

]]> By: Adam Fareed http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-142142 Adam Fareed Sun, 08 Aug 2010 12:35:25 +0000 http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-142142 Amman is the best city all over the world, i went out side the country and know that very much now. All love for amman and Jordan. adamfareed@gmail.com Amman is the best city all over the world, i went out side the country and know that very much now.
All love for amman and Jordan.
adamfareed@gmail.com

]]> By: rdabby http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-142124 rdabby Fri, 06 Aug 2010 11:14:54 +0000 http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-142124 There is one thing in Amman that you failed to mention, is that what GUYS love to do the most. 1 they love to brag about their sexual experiences which may or may not be true. usually 1% of the story is true.. second thing, Jordanian guys are well known for the " If he didnt get what he wanted whatever it is whether its dating her, sleeping with her or whatever" he would still talk shit about her because she said no, simply yeshel 3ardha. Happened with every girl i know at least once! And one night stands? really?? well yeah perhaps if you re talking about those cheap night clubs in Rabiyeh or Shemaisani with Iraqi chicks dancing around and head banging, then yeah perhaps because they re paying for it. But if you re talking about normal clubs with normal people who are there for the music, well allow me to say that this is just bunch of crap. I go to these places and not once have i left with a guy or any of my friends did... Perhaps it happens like once on a blue moon with a very lucky guy, but to generalize it and say it happens all the time.. Then i have to say you re wrong. Last thing, if you think that sex has become a very normal thing nowadays and a not very hush hush topic, then explain to me how come honor killings are still on the table??? There is one thing in Amman that you failed to mention, is that
what GUYS love to do the most. 1 they love to brag about their sexual experiences which may or may not be true. usually 1% of the story is true..
second thing, Jordanian guys are well known for the ” If he didnt get what he wanted whatever it is whether its dating her, sleeping with her or whatever” he would still talk shit about her because she said no, simply yeshel 3ardha. Happened with every girl i know at least once!

And one night stands? really?? well yeah perhaps if you re talking about those cheap night clubs in Rabiyeh or Shemaisani with Iraqi chicks dancing around and head banging, then yeah perhaps because they re paying for it.
But if you re talking about normal clubs with normal people who are there for the music, well allow me to say that this is just bunch of crap. I go to these places and not once have i left with a guy or any of my friends did… Perhaps it happens like once on a blue moon with a very lucky guy, but to generalize it and say it happens all the time.. Then i have to say you re wrong.

Last thing, if you think that sex has become a very normal thing nowadays and a not very hush hush topic, then explain to me how come honor killings are still on the table???

]]> By: bambam http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-142099 bambam Thu, 05 Aug 2010 08:29:16 +0000 http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-142099 lol moving out at 16 .... in the states .... lol lol moving out at 16 …. in the states …. lol

]]> By: Khalid http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-142095 Khalid Thu, 05 Aug 2010 06:38:52 +0000 http://www.black-iris.com/2007/05/07/sex-in-amman/#comment-142095 At Least in Amman Jordan Babies dont have babies as for the Rest of the world .Girl at the Age of 13 in USA and Europe start having intercourse relations and on their sweet 16 they move out of their parents home to have their own Babies without husbands ,,, the Question you need to ask your self Do you see these behavior in Jordan ??? The Answer is No . The GF/BF in Jordan is not more than being together , Dinning Out , Watching Movie ...etc some time with Certain Emotional Touch such as kissing ...etc. Socially We still Better from Most Countries Mainly the Western Countries . So If You Dont Like Jordan , Then Find your self Other Country . At Least in Amman Jordan Babies dont have babies as for the Rest of the world .Girl at the Age of 13 in USA and Europe start having intercourse relations and on their sweet 16 they move out of their parents home to have their own Babies without husbands ,,, the Question you need to ask your self Do you see these behavior in Jordan ???

The Answer is No .

The GF/BF in Jordan is not more than being together , Dinning Out , Watching Movie …etc some time with Certain Emotional Touch such as kissing …etc.

Socially We still Better from Most Countries Mainly the Western Countries .

So If You Dont Like Jordan , Then Find your self Other Country .

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