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	<title>Comments on: Whats Your Bucket List?</title>
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		<title>By: ali</title>
		<link>http://www.black-iris.com/2007/12/27/whats-your-bucket-list/#comment-126546</link>
		<dc:creator>ali</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Nov 2008 17:11:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>1.go skydiving
2.parasailing over a clear blue ocean.
3. go ziplining.
4.go to new zealand.
5. fly a plane
6. learn how to do a back flip.
7. climb a large mountain
8. go camping with lindsey
9.paint my room and do a good job
10.hug a kangaroo in australia.
11.get a puppy for christmas
12.pet a monkey.
13.learn the thriller dance with aj and katherine
14.have jordan teach me to lond board
15.ride an elephant in africa
16.hug a lonesome person, in need.
17.save someones life.
18.give a poor person $100
19.go to spain and italy
20.go to whitecastle
21.walk through a car wash
22.paint myself black
23.live on a beach
24.ride a camel
25.walk to cpk
26.live to be 100
27.be pimp at rugbee
28.shoot a duck
29.surf in hawaii and new hampshire
30.go of a bike jump wit out fallin
31.cook a egg on the sidewalk
32.go on a roadtrip with karli
33.make a diffrence
34.be in 4 places at once
35.kiss a turtle
36.swim wit sharks and no get bitten
37.adopt a kid
38.go to panama
39.donate blood
40.be batman
41.get a tatoo
42.witness a miracle
43.steal someone’s heart
44.kiss in the rain
45.run away from the right thing to do
46.fall asleep on the beach
47.buy something that i desire but can’t afford
48.take the first step into something dramatic
49.speak my mind to a strong extent
50.swim in a fountain
51.jump off of a waterfall
52.let my curls show
53.ride mr. freeze in six flags(texas)
54.fly to greece
55.run back for one more kiss
56.sit on a cloud
57.touch the sky
58.lay in the street with no fears
59.sit in a dark closet and laugh until i cry
60.wear pearls
61.be a hero
62.help an elderly across the street
63.create a friendship with the man that sits
on the “green box”
64.bake cookies for the elderly
65.read to someone with eyes no longer able to
66.read the bible and look in between the lines
67.give flowers to a lonesome soul
68.wave at a stranger and run to create conversation
69.write a letter to a vip of the world
70.go to the ellen degeneres show
71.keep a live vegetable garden(maintain)
72.shave someone’s head(with permission)
73.fix a motor
74.go on a trip with no luggage
75.backpack in a foreign country
76.run in a field of sunflowers
78.dance in the rain with the man i love
79.tell my father how much he really is my best friend
80.sleep in till noon
81.heard sheep
82.dance in my underwear to bob segar
83.go through a week of no time (no clocks)
84.drive in the middle of the night to “his” window
85.visit nana’s grave(eat cake &#38; listen to bob marley)
86.sing to a crowd of people
87.fall asleep in the grass
88.fire a sniper
89.go to europe and eat"brownies"with robin
90.buy a star in the sky
91.wait for a sign</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>1.go skydiving<br />
2.parasailing over a clear blue ocean.<br />
3. go ziplining.<br />
4.go to new zealand.<br />
5. fly a plane<br />
6. learn how to do a back flip.<br />
7. climb a large mountain<br />
8. go camping with lindsey<br />
9.paint my room and do a good job<br />
10.hug a kangaroo in australia.<br />
11.get a puppy for christmas<br />
12.pet a monkey.<br />
13.learn the thriller dance with aj and katherine<br />
14.have jordan teach me to lond board<br />
15.ride an elephant in africa<br />
16.hug a lonesome person, in need.<br />
17.save someones life.<br />
18.give a poor person $100<br />
19.go to spain and italy<br />
20.go to whitecastle<br />
21.walk through a car wash<br />
22.paint myself black<br />
23.live on a beach<br />
24.ride a camel<br />
25.walk to cpk<br />
26.live to be 100<br />
27.be pimp at rugbee<br />
28.shoot a duck<br />
29.surf in hawaii and new hampshire<br />
30.go of a bike jump wit out fallin<br />
31.cook a egg on the sidewalk<br />
32.go on a roadtrip with karli<br />
33.make a diffrence<br />
34.be in 4 places at once<br />
35.kiss a turtle<br />
36.swim wit sharks and no get bitten<br />
37.adopt a kid<br />
38.go to panama<br />
39.donate blood<br />
40.be batman<br />
41.get a tatoo<br />
42.witness a miracle<br />
43.steal someone’s heart<br />
44.kiss in the rain<br />
45.run away from the right thing to do<br />
46.fall asleep on the beach<br />
47.buy something that i desire but can’t afford<br />
48.take the first step into something dramatic<br />
49.speak my mind to a strong extent<br />
50.swim in a fountain<br />
51.jump off of a waterfall<br />
52.let my curls show<br />
53.ride mr. freeze in six flags(texas)<br />
54.fly to greece<br />
55.run back for one more kiss<br />
56.sit on a cloud<br />
57.touch the sky<br />
58.lay in the street with no fears<br />
59.sit in a dark closet and laugh until i cry<br />
60.wear pearls<br />
61.be a hero<br />
62.help an elderly across the street<br />
63.create a friendship with the man that sits<br />
on the “green box”<br />
64.bake cookies for the elderly<br />
65.read to someone with eyes no longer able to<br />
66.read the bible and look in between the lines<br />
67.give flowers to a lonesome soul<br />
68.wave at a stranger and run to create conversation<br />
69.write a letter to a vip of the world<br />
70.go to the ellen degeneres show<br />
71.keep a live vegetable garden(maintain)<br />
72.shave someone’s head(with permission)<br />
73.fix a motor<br />
74.go on a trip with no luggage<br />
75.backpack in a foreign country<br />
76.run in a field of sunflowers<br />
78.dance in the rain with the man i love<br />
79.tell my father how much he really is my best friend<br />
80.sleep in till noon<br />
81.heard sheep<br />
82.dance in my underwear to bob segar<br />
83.go through a week of no time (no clocks)<br />
84.drive in the middle of the night to “his” window<br />
85.visit nana’s grave(eat cake &amp; listen to bob marley)<br />
86.sing to a crowd of people<br />
87.fall asleep in the grass<br />
88.fire a sniper<br />
89.go to europe and eat&#8221;brownies&#8221;with robin<br />
90.buy a star in the sky<br />
91.wait for a sign</p>
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		<title>By: Iman</title>
		<link>http://www.black-iris.com/2007/12/27/whats-your-bucket-list/#comment-110307</link>
		<dc:creator>Iman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Dec 2007 03:42:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.black-iris.com/2007/12/27/whats-your-bucket-list/#comment-110307</guid>
		<description>7aki Fadi: (that name is just so not fitting of you, since your 7aki is contrary to fadi ;d) I think we can still do it without having to compromise our responsibilities ... a natural, balanced, fulfilling life is possible ... we just have to try and not really hold back and waiting it out for the tomorrow that may never come!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>7aki Fadi: (that name is just so not fitting of you, since your 7aki is contrary to fadi ;d) I think we can still do it without having to compromise our responsibilities &#8230; a natural, balanced, fulfilling life is possible &#8230; we just have to try and not really hold back and waiting it out for the tomorrow that may never come!</p>
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		<title>By: 7aki Fadi</title>
		<link>http://www.black-iris.com/2007/12/27/whats-your-bucket-list/#comment-110303</link>
		<dc:creator>7aki Fadi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Dec 2007 19:39:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.black-iris.com/2007/12/27/whats-your-bucket-list/#comment-110303</guid>
		<description>Iman: We don't live it like we would like to live it because there are responsibilities that always hold us back. It would be nice to do whatever I wanted whenever I wanted  or buy myself anything I want whenever I wanted it but it's just not possible.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Iman: We don&#8217;t live it like we would like to live it because there are responsibilities that always hold us back. It would be nice to do whatever I wanted whenever I wanted  or buy myself anything I want whenever I wanted it but it&#8217;s just not possible.</p>
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		<title>By: secratea</title>
		<link>http://www.black-iris.com/2007/12/27/whats-your-bucket-list/#comment-110297</link>
		<dc:creator>secratea</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Dec 2007 15:53:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.black-iris.com/2007/12/27/whats-your-bucket-list/#comment-110297</guid>
		<description>I’ve always wanted to have a child (a daughter is more preferable) before I kick the bucket, but if I know I’m dying even before ever achieving that, I’d just want to perform haj and die after going back home…
And sa7, I second 7aki… you haven’t let us in on your bucket list :-(</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I’ve always wanted to have a child (a daughter is more preferable) before I kick the bucket, but if I know I’m dying even before ever achieving that, I’d just want to perform haj and die after going back home…<br />
And sa7, I second 7aki… you haven’t let us in on your bucket list <img src='http://www.black-iris.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':-(' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: Iman</title>
		<link>http://www.black-iris.com/2007/12/27/whats-your-bucket-list/#comment-110295</link>
		<dc:creator>Iman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Dec 2007 15:30:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.black-iris.com/2007/12/27/whats-your-bucket-list/#comment-110295</guid>
		<description>Okay guys....  why don't you live your life as if you're going to die any minute ... live every moment.... never mind the cliche sounding words...but seriously, what is stopping you from living your life naturally and to the fullest? My many many experiences with death ranging from losing close friends in the most random sudden manner, close family members to illness, colleagues, friends of friends to passing by those shrines almost daily reminds me that I should always live each day as if it will be my last ... that's why I try my best to not miss any prayer...that's why if I am utterly disappointed and outraged at a friend, I learned to let it go ... that's why if I call a friend and they don't return my call, I don't have a problem picking up the phone and trying again...that's why if I am bitchy at times and I feel that I may have over-reacted, I don't have a problem saying sorry... that's why if I am convinced that, at the time, I am attracted to someone, I don't have a problem initiating the 'first move' ....and that's why every night, as I fall asleep I have a ' my day in review' ....and that's why I almost always don't go to bed mad at anyone...and that's why I treat myself to anything and everything I have in mind ... even if I have 10 pairs of boots ...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Okay guys&#8230;.  why don&#8217;t you live your life as if you&#8217;re going to die any minute &#8230; live every moment&#8230;. never mind the cliche sounding words&#8230;but seriously, what is stopping you from living your life naturally and to the fullest? My many many experiences with death ranging from losing close friends in the most random sudden manner, close family members to illness, colleagues, friends of friends to passing by those shrines almost daily reminds me that I should always live each day as if it will be my last &#8230; that&#8217;s why I try my best to not miss any prayer&#8230;that&#8217;s why if I am utterly disappointed and outraged at a friend, I learned to let it go &#8230; that&#8217;s why if I call a friend and they don&#8217;t return my call, I don&#8217;t have a problem picking up the phone and trying again&#8230;that&#8217;s why if I am bitchy at times and I feel that I may have over-reacted, I don&#8217;t have a problem saying sorry&#8230; that&#8217;s why if I am convinced that, at the time, I am attracted to someone, I don&#8217;t have a problem initiating the &#8216;first move&#8217; &#8230;.and that&#8217;s why every night, as I fall asleep I have a &#8216; my day in review&#8217; &#8230;.and that&#8217;s why I almost always don&#8217;t go to bed mad at anyone&#8230;and that&#8217;s why I treat myself to anything and everything I have in mind &#8230; even if I have 10 pairs of boots &#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: 7aki Fadi</title>
		<link>http://www.black-iris.com/2007/12/27/whats-your-bucket-list/#comment-110294</link>
		<dc:creator>7aki Fadi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Dec 2007 14:07:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.black-iris.com/2007/12/27/whats-your-bucket-list/#comment-110294</guid>
		<description>OK here’s what I would LIKE to do cos you know usually plans don’t pan out:

- After I quit my job I am not telling anybody but my husband that I am going to die because peoples sympathy might irritate me and my family’s sadness will depress me, cos life is too short, literally

- I will take my Mom, brother, sister, husband and daughter on a vacation somewhere that is relaxing and spend fun time with them, soak up the fun and the sun and the food. Thailand most probably, I LOVED it and people are nice and cute and the food is out of this world.

- Just get together with all the people I love.

- Have as much fun as I can basically.

- Oh, like that movie I watched once I can't remember what it was, I would make tapes for my daughter to remember me by :)

- So bottom line Naseem, it will be family and fun. 

But hey, wait a second, you didn't tell us what YOU would do.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>OK here’s what I would LIKE to do cos you know usually plans don’t pan out:</p>
<p>- After I quit my job I am not telling anybody but my husband that I am going to die because peoples sympathy might irritate me and my family’s sadness will depress me, cos life is too short, literally</p>
<p>- I will take my Mom, brother, sister, husband and daughter on a vacation somewhere that is relaxing and spend fun time with them, soak up the fun and the sun and the food. Thailand most probably, I LOVED it and people are nice and cute and the food is out of this world.</p>
<p>- Just get together with all the people I love.</p>
<p>- Have as much fun as I can basically.</p>
<p>- Oh, like that movie I watched once I can&#8217;t remember what it was, I would make tapes for my daughter to remember me by <img src='http://www.black-iris.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>- So bottom line Naseem, it will be family and fun. </p>
<p>But hey, wait a second, you didn&#8217;t tell us what YOU would do.</p>
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		<title>By: Nas</title>
		<link>http://www.black-iris.com/2007/12/27/whats-your-bucket-list/#comment-110287</link>
		<dc:creator>Nas</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Dec 2007 11:02:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.black-iris.com/2007/12/27/whats-your-bucket-list/#comment-110287</guid>
		<description>&lt;b&gt;7aki:&lt;/b&gt; yeah, im familiar with that poem. the question is...what would you do after quiting your job?

&lt;b&gt;secratea:&lt;/b&gt; you wouldn't want to do one memorable thing that you always wanted to do, before going home to die?

&lt;b&gt;awartany:&lt;/b&gt; a lot of people might have a similar list to yours, but while death might make someone like me think heavily about the afterlife, i would still be entranced by the dunya i've hardly seen. in other words, there must be a way to fulfill a life and an afterlife. 

&lt;b&gt;maha:&lt;/b&gt; lol, it's almost 4am and your excused :-D</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>7aki:</b> yeah, im familiar with that poem. the question is&#8230;what would you do after quiting your job?</p>
<p><b>secratea:</b> you wouldn&#8217;t want to do one memorable thing that you always wanted to do, before going home to die?</p>
<p><b>awartany:</b> a lot of people might have a similar list to yours, but while death might make someone like me think heavily about the afterlife, i would still be entranced by the dunya i&#8217;ve hardly seen. in other words, there must be a way to fulfill a life and an afterlife. </p>
<p><b>maha:</b> lol, it&#8217;s almost 4am and your excused <img src='http://www.black-iris.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':-D' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: Maha</title>
		<link>http://www.black-iris.com/2007/12/27/whats-your-bucket-list/#comment-110285</link>
		<dc:creator>Maha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Dec 2007 10:48:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.black-iris.com/2007/12/27/whats-your-bucket-list/#comment-110285</guid>
		<description>a conversation this morning ...
me: what!! you have cysts in your bones?
him: ya so says the MRI, check it out 
me: (much later after googling bone cysts and stuff) ya3nni inta mawaat (as he is about to leave the house)
him: yes.ma thalesh min el 3omor gad ma matha (a sentence i say or hear everyday my mental memento mori tattoo)
me: you should clean your room then, and maybe up your life insurance so i can cash in, i'm still your beneficiary 
him: why would i worry about my room being clean when i die
me: I'm not cleaning after your dead a$$
him: well how about you clean THE HOUSE so you're not dead when i come back home
me: whaTeverrrrr 6ayeb yalla roo7 bye 

so this morning it was established that before anyone kicks the bucket in this house their room and earthly belongings should be clean organized sorted and spoken for (i kick it tomorrow my DSLR is my sister's, she will take pics of my funeral playing "good riddance"). This is important stuff though it might sound silly. Think about it if people knew when they will die they will have no excuse for the mess they leave behind hence the 96%...
p.s. it's almost 4 am</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>a conversation this morning &#8230;<br />
me: what!! you have cysts in your bones?<br />
him: ya so says the MRI, check it out<br />
me: (much later after googling bone cysts and stuff) ya3nni inta mawaat (as he is about to leave the house)<br />
him: yes.ma thalesh min el 3omor gad ma matha (a sentence i say or hear everyday my mental memento mori tattoo)<br />
me: you should clean your room then, and maybe up your life insurance so i can cash in, i&#8217;m still your beneficiary<br />
him: why would i worry about my room being clean when i die<br />
me: I&#8217;m not cleaning after your dead a$$<br />
him: well how about you clean THE HOUSE so you&#8217;re not dead when i come back home<br />
me: whaTeverrrrr 6ayeb yalla roo7 bye </p>
<p>so this morning it was established that before anyone kicks the bucket in this house their room and earthly belongings should be clean organized sorted and spoken for (i kick it tomorrow my DSLR is my sister&#8217;s, she will take pics of my funeral playing &#8220;good riddance&#8221;). This is important stuff though it might sound silly. Think about it if people knew when they will die they will have no excuse for the mess they leave behind hence the 96%&#8230;<br />
p.s. it&#8217;s almost 4 am</p>
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		<title>By: Awartany</title>
		<link>http://www.black-iris.com/2007/12/27/whats-your-bucket-list/#comment-110283</link>
		<dc:creator>Awartany</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Dec 2007 08:42:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.black-iris.com/2007/12/27/whats-your-bucket-list/#comment-110283</guid>
		<description>Well, if I knew when I'm going to die, many things I will do (randomly):
-	Ask everyone I know to forgive me if I ever did anything wrong to them.
-	Pay all my debts (if any).
-	Do the most I can for my mother and pray for my father’s soul as much as I can (I already do, however, I could give it more dedication).
-	Ask our great god “Allah” to forgive all my sins.
-	Pray to our great god “Allah” as much as I can.
-	Ask our great god “Allah” to give me the gift of dying while praying.
-	Do as much good work as I can to our community.
-	Fast every day or at least every Monday and Thursday.
I guess that’s the most important to me. Maybe I forgot some thing, but I won't when this is real!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, if I knew when I&#8217;m going to die, many things I will do (randomly):<br />
-	Ask everyone I know to forgive me if I ever did anything wrong to them.<br />
-	Pay all my debts (if any).<br />
-	Do the most I can for my mother and pray for my father’s soul as much as I can (I already do, however, I could give it more dedication).<br />
-	Ask our great god “Allah” to forgive all my sins.<br />
-	Pray to our great god “Allah” as much as I can.<br />
-	Ask our great god “Allah” to give me the gift of dying while praying.<br />
-	Do as much good work as I can to our community.<br />
-	Fast every day or at least every Monday and Thursday.<br />
I guess that’s the most important to me. Maybe I forgot some thing, but I won&#8217;t when this is real!!!</p>
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		<title>By: secratea</title>
		<link>http://www.black-iris.com/2007/12/27/whats-your-bucket-list/#comment-110278</link>
		<dc:creator>secratea</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Dec 2007 03:30:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.black-iris.com/2007/12/27/whats-your-bucket-list/#comment-110278</guid>
		<description>I'd rather not know, and that's why I'd pray  it be  a sudden death..
But if I knew, I'd quit my temporary life over here and go home to die there.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;d rather not know, and that&#8217;s why I&#8217;d pray  it be  a sudden death..<br />
But if I knew, I&#8217;d quit my temporary life over here and go home to die there.</p>
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		<title>By: 7aki Fadi</title>
		<link>http://www.black-iris.com/2007/12/27/whats-your-bucket-list/#comment-110277</link>
		<dc:creator>7aki Fadi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Dec 2007 02:34:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.black-iris.com/2007/12/27/whats-your-bucket-list/#comment-110277</guid>
		<description>Mahmoud Darwish said this: 

http://7akifadi.com/2007/08/31/remainder-of-a-life/

It's a pretty good poem check it out.

What would i do if I was about to kick the bucket? The first thing I would do is quit my job and stop working.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mahmoud Darwish said this: </p>
<p><a href="http://7akifadi.com/2007/08/31/remainder-of-a-life/" rel="nofollow">http://7akifadi.com/2007/08/31/remainder-of-a-life/</a></p>
<p>It&#8217;s a pretty good poem check it out.</p>
<p>What would i do if I was about to kick the bucket? The first thing I would do is quit my job and stop working.</p>
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